So, moving forward about those love feelings I've been wondering what is love? I'm researching myself deeply to figure it out and one of those I'm idealization a new concept to me about love another person. I know that love has many variations and that variation that I'm thinking is about love between men and woman and following those dots, we could`t rethink about love in general.
Nowadays we're used to understand that a couple is one man with another woman. I can prove this by reading a dictionary that is made by our old concepts. In portuguese dictionary (I didn't look for others definitions in another language) is:
1. made by male and female
2. group of two people that has sentimental/sexual relation
I understand that dictionary has limitation and with good reasons but, so why we are so limited to think that? That is normal see a couple (one man with one woman) loving each other. Could be love more than that? Could love achieve high levels of maturity and grown faster than that. It is a little dificult to understand, even to me, but love is a huge power that we use very poorly lately.
Questioning about those thoughts, I asked myself. Could I love more than one person simultaneously ? An important observation, I'm talking about true love, not about dirty, or whatever related to sex or lie...so going back. Could I love two girls and love another man and all four loving each other and living together like a normal couple? In this relationship would be something like this. Two couples with no homosexualism, but one man and woman would date the another woman and man too. No possession. No discrimination. Separated room to keep privacy, but a big hall to everyone enjoy that family like a normal family. It`s sound strange and maybe it exist in some place in world, maybe not.
Nowadays we're used to understand that a couple is one man with another woman. I can prove this by reading a dictionary that is made by our old concepts. In portuguese dictionary (I didn't look for others definitions in another language) is:
1. made by male and female
2. group of two people that has sentimental/sexual relation
I understand that dictionary has limitation and with good reasons but, so why we are so limited to think that? That is normal see a couple (one man with one woman) loving each other. Could be love more than that? Could love achieve high levels of maturity and grown faster than that. It is a little dificult to understand, even to me, but love is a huge power that we use very poorly lately.
Questioning about those thoughts, I asked myself. Could I love more than one person simultaneously ? An important observation, I'm talking about true love, not about dirty, or whatever related to sex or lie...so going back. Could I love two girls and love another man and all four loving each other and living together like a normal couple? In this relationship would be something like this. Two couples with no homosexualism, but one man and woman would date the another woman and man too. No possession. No discrimination. Separated room to keep privacy, but a big hall to everyone enjoy that family like a normal family. It`s sound strange and maybe it exist in some place in world, maybe not.
I see many problems, but I see so many good things too. If we compare living alone, you have problems with yourself, loneliness is a problem but we have to deal with if we love ourselves and we'll not make suicide because of that. Living like a normal couple we have problem too. Different thinking, culture and others conflicts but we'll not get divorced because of that if we really love each other...we'll try to go on overriding problems with another new solution that will make another problem that will happen, right? So why not try to grow up this felling, this sensation what is love!? Problems will ever exist so I'll do like too change then to another layer. In this new sphere good things will happen in same proportion. More people to argue, to discuss problems, more money, more chances to live in a good place, to share good moments and teach to them and others that love is just limited by our thoughts.
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